You have within you now, all the abilities, knowledge and skills you need to be successful.
Every experience in life is stored as a memory in your unconscious mind and can be used as a resource for next time something similar occurs. Everything you have ever done, thought, imagined, dreamt, learnt and seen is still within you now. Even the dramas in life and the pain from these experiences will be useful in the future, these negative ones are those that cause stress, fear, doubt and force you to hold back, hide and self-sabotage.
In fact, the greatest negatives always become the greatest positives… it may take a while and when it does, it is amazing.
Leaving a relationship at the time is hard, then one day when you meet the love of your life, you will look back and be grateful that without that negative split from the past (at the time) this new amazing person would not be with you now.
The resource of ‘procrastination’ is awesome to use… apply it to ‘excuses’ and you never get around to making excuses.
Not only are these fundamentals empowering and life changing, they can be fun to manipulate your old actions and reactions into new ones once you understand them!
Everything you have ever done in the past is connected to an emotion, either positive or negative.
The positive ones are ‘processed’ and sit at the forefront of your mind as motivation.
The negative ones (remember this is the feeling you attached to this situation at the time) as in the fundamentals #1, #2 and #3 you are in control of this, you did it for protection and it was beneficial for you reacted that way at the time.
Negative memories are ‘unprocessed’ and are the reason people succeed or fail, it is how they react or respond to past experiences.
If you dwell on the past, you hold onto these emotional memories or cover them up using ‘Masking Agents’. The typical masking agents are, cigarettes, drugs, alcohol, food, keeping busy and sex. They bypass the typical processing of the brain and will suppress and limit you in all kinds of ways in the future.
As I explained earlier in this fundamental, these negative ones are those that cause stress, fear, doubt and force you to hold back, hide and self-sabotage.
Successful people all have lows in their lives, you are no different. They have managed to understand, take control, accept the past and create an incredible future for themselves… just as you can do.
Once you remove the negative charge to a memory, it becomes processed and that experience will now propel you into the future not hold you back.
I knew you were going to ask, ‘How can I remove the negative charge to a situation?’ the first step is to understand how they become negative to start with.
Imagine a couple on their wedding day, the bride walks down the aisle to a significant for her or for both of you. It is all love, happiness and fun with family and friends on that day.
5 years later, the couple hears this song and instantly they are transformed back to the wedding day and the automatic response and stored memory is a positive one of love, happiness and fun.
Imagine another 5 years down the track and they have split. If one or the other hears that same song again, instantly they are transformed back to the wedding day and the automatic response and stored memory that was a positive is now anger, fear, bitterness, regret and all those negative hurtful ones.
See how situations don’t change in the past, the emotional connection can and therefor the response does.
The brain is incredibly powerful and incredibly stupid… and they all work the same way!
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Thanks and I will deliver Fundamental #5 next week.